The Sacred Reconnection™
A 1:1 plant medicine journey to come home to yourself.
For the woman who is ready to heal deeply—beyond words.
Therapy gave you insights. Meditation helped you cope. But something still feels stuck. You’re tired of carrying this weight, feeling disconnected from yourself, and overthinking your healing.
But what if it could be different? What if you could heal beyond words?
The Sacred Reconnection™ is for the woman who’s ready to release what’s been holding her back — whether it’s trauma, burnout, or the sense that she’s lost touch with herself, her body, her spiritual connection, or her place in the world in times of uncertainty.
In this plant medicine journey (incl. preparation guidance, a private retreat, and 4 weeks somatic integration support), you'll dive deep into your subconscious and soul.
This is a journey for women to come home to themselves.
Experience a fully legal, safe Psilocybin retreat in the Netherlands
Be held in a trauma-informed, somatic space that rejects spiritual bypassing
Receive 6 weeks of personalized online preparation and integration support
Experience a fully legal, safe Psilocybin retreat in the Netherlands
Be held in a trauma-informed, somatic space that rejects spiritual bypassing
Receive 6 weeks of personalized online preparation and integration support
Why This Journey is Different:
Private Space for Psychedelic Healing:
This is a 1:1 experience, held in deep presence. You’ll be guided by an experienced facilitator in a safe, nurturing space designed for deep transformation.
Female-Led, Rooted in Integrity
This is a woman-led space, without spiritual bypassing or unsolicited advice. You are your own authority. Your body and inner healing potential lead the way.
Trauma-Informed & Safe
This isn't about "pushing through" or forcing catharsis. Every step — preparation, ceremony, and integration — honors your natural rhythm for healing
Support Beyond the Ceremony
You’ll be guided 1:1 for 4 weeks after the ceremony, receive an integration workbook, and a 4 online Integration Calls — supporting you to embody your insights and create lasting change.
Sacred & Legal in the Netherlands
The psychedelic experience takes place in the Netherlands, where Psilocybin truffles are legal. The space is designed for a safe and sacred journey.
You don’t have to stay stuck in survival mode, overthinking everything, or feeling like you’re never fully safe in your own body. You’re not broken. Your nervous system has been protecting you for a long time — but now, it’s time to come home to yourself.
What Happens When You Reconnect?
You’ll Come Home to Yourself
You feel more at ease with yourself. You trust your intuition and can live by your own values, without guilt, shame, and anxiety running your life.
Release What No Longer Serves You
Old patterns, survival strategies, and feelings of self-doubt finally soften. You let go of family patterns, ancestral wounds, or stories that were never truly yours.
Remember You Are Already Whole
You reconnect to something bigger than yourself. You move through life with more peace, purpose, and belonging — where all parts of you are welcome.
This is What You Receive:
Two Weeks Preparation Guidance with Private Preparation Call
We’ll explore your intentions, personal history, and anything you need to feel safe, seen, and supported so you can show up prepared and ready.
Private Psilocybin Retreat (incl. Overnight Stay)
Held in a private, intimate setting with trauma-informed 1:1 female guidance. Whether your intention is deep healing, clarity, or reconnection — this is your sacred space to dive deep.
4 Week Sacred Reconnection Integration Journey with 4 x Integration Call
Integration is what turns insights into real, embodied change. You'll receive personalized support to help you integrate after your psychedelic experience.
Somatic Integration Workbook & Resources
You'll receive structured reflection prompts, tools, and nervous system practices to support you long after the ceremony. This is where you slowly and gently step into a new reality — at your own pace.
Client Transformations:
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This Is for You If:
You’re Ready for Real Transformation
Whether you're new to plant medicine or a woman who values deep integration, you're ready for deep, lasting transformation.
You’re Open to Somatic & Nervous System Healing
You’re ready to reconnect with the wisdom in your body — not just understand it in your mind.
You’re Looking for Personalized Support
You’re seeking 1:1 personal support from a guide who’s walked this path — with experience in burnout, trauma, narcissistic abuse, and somatic integration.
You’re Ready to Commit to the Integration
You’re not here for an instant enlightenment hit or “pretty visuals.” You’re committed to the deep integration that creates real change in the weeks and months after your experience.
You’re NOT Looking for Spiritual Bypassing
You’re not seeking a New Age bypass that disconnects from grief, trauma, abuse, or systemic oppression — or that frames everything as a “karmic lesson.” Instead, you want to deepen your understanding of life, in a space that stays connected to the world.
You’re Ready for a Sacred Reconnection™
This path may challenge you, but you know and feel your soul is ready to come back home.
the Sacred Reconnection™ journey
1x Sacred Reconnection™ Intake & Preparation Call
We’ll clarify your intentions, explore your history, and make sure you are well-prepared for this life-changing experience. You’ll also receive the Somatic Preparation Guide to support your process before your ceremony.
Full-Day Private Plant Medicine Retreat with Overnight Stay
Held in a safe, intimate setting in the Netherlands (max. 60 minutes from Amsterdam) with 1:1 facilitation focused entirely on you. Nourishing meals, a comfortable overnight stay, and a gentle morning program are included.
4-Week Somatic Integration Journey with 1:1 Guidance
The real transformation begins after the ceremony — when you integrate your insights into daily life. Through 4 personal Somatic Integration Calls, we’ll focus on healing, nervous system regulation, and embodied action steps that anchor your transformation into lasting change. In addition, you’ll receive the Sacred Reconnection™ Somatic Healing Integration Guide for continued support.
Expert, Trauma-Informed Support Every Step of the Way
No spiritual bypassing or pushing beyond your boundaries. Safe, grounded support where consent and honoring your own inner wisdom are seen as sacred.
Pay It Forward & Practice Reciprocity
10% of the profits are donated to the Indigenous Medicine Conservation Fund (IMC Fund) — supporting Indigenous communities, their knowledge, sacred plant medicines, and ecosystems.
Scholarships are available for women and LGBTQI+ people with limited access to healing spaces. I especially encourage those who face systemic barriers to healing to apply.
Decolonizing Psychedelics
When you sign up for The Sacred Reconnection™, you’ll receive this powerful bonus teaching and worksheet, which dives deeper into the history of Psilocybin, its global Indigenous roots, and how to engage with plant medicine ethically — understanding reciprocity and how your personal healing is connected to the greater whole.
FAQ
Frequently Asked Q's
Is this completey legal?
Yes, in the Netherlands, Psilocybin truffles are 100% legal to use. I only work within the legal framework and prioritize safety above all.
What’s the difference between recreational use and this journey?
Recreational plant medicine (aka “tripping”) use often focuses on fun, visuals, or curiosity. The Sacred Reconnection is something entirely different.
This is a guided, intentional, trauma-informed healing journey designed for deep inner work — not just a trip, but a deep transformation.
You’ll receive expert support before, during, and after the ceremony to ensure safety, integration, and real healing. As a Trauma-Informed Facilitator, I hold a professional, safe space where you are fully supported throughout the whole process.
For women with a history of trauma, Set and Setting — the emotional, physical, and energetic environment — are everything. The right environment and integration support is essential, especially if old trauma imprints or survival responses arise. Without this, it’s easy to become overwhelmed or retraumatized.
The Sacred Reconnection is held in a private, calming space, with carefully curated music, surroundings, and a pre- and post-ceremony process designed to optimize your healing.
This isn’t about avoiding discomfort—it’s about creating the right conditions for your nervous system to process and integrate what arises, so that whatever arises, it becomes a profound, healing experience in this container.
If you’re curious about plant medicine, you can find more information in free the Psilocybin Mini Guide for Women.
What if I’m afraid of reliving my trauma?
That’s a completely valid concern, and you’re not alone in it.
This is a trauma-informed, somatic journey rooted in the understanding that healing happens through safety, presence, and regulation — not pushing yourself into reactivation.
Inspired by the work of Dr. Gabor Maté and Dr. Stephen Porges applications of Polyvagal Theory, I support you to move at your own pace, gently and with care.
We don’t force anything. Your nervous system leads, and we listen. You’ll be guided with tools that support nervous system safety, embodiment, and integration.
As a Trauma-Informed Facilitator, I create a space where your consent and boundaries are honored, so your healing can unfold gently. This is about reconnecting with your own resources, inner wisdom, and wholeness.
What is somatic healing?
In Western culture, healing is often focused on talk therapy. But our bodies carry deep wisdom too — and sometimes, trauma.
Somatic healing is a body-based way of processing emotions, experiences, and insights — especially those that come up during or after plant medicine.
Instead of trying to figure everything out with your mind, somatic healing helps you reconnect with your body in a safe, guided, and gentle way. You learn to listen to your sensations, feelings, and emotions — turning them into powerful insights and embodied action.
This approach is based on Polyvagal Theory and the Somatic Plant Medicine Integration Model (developed by Atira Tan), which remind us that healing happens through safety and connection, not through force or intensity.
When your nervous system feels supported, it becomes possible to shift old survival patterns, complete trauma imprints that got stuck, and create new experiences where you feel whole and at home in yourself again.
Somatic healing and integration isn’t just about what you experienced during the ceremony — it’s about how you embrace life afterward.
We include multiple integration sessions following your plant medicine experience. This allows us to take the pressure off the retreat itself and meet your system with its natural rhythm, which is especially helpful for those with sensitive nervous systems.
In a Western culture that values constant productivity over well-being, I offer a different invitation: to slow down. To honor the deeper pacing of your body and spirit. To remember that wholeness isn’t achieved through force but through attunement.
What dates are available for the ceremony?
Ceremonies are held on weekdays or weekends, depending on availability. The location is within a 60-minute drive from Amsterdam, the Netherlands.
Please note:
- The location for the retreat will be determined based on the selected dates and may differ from the images displayed on the website.
- The chosen location will provide an equivalent level of comfort and luxury suitable for the retreat experience.
Once you express interest and share your preferred dates, I’ll confirm availability. Together, we’ll find the perfect date that works for you.
After your date is confirmed, you can finalize your booking with your health declaration (once approved by me) and your payment, and your retreat will be officially reserved.
From there, you’ll receive everything you need to begin your preparation and feel fully supported.
- I recommend booking at least 30 days in advance, to allow time for both the scheduling process and your personal preparation.
- You’re welcome to share two preferred dates when you reach out, so I can check availability right away.
how does the booking process look like?
1. Contact Me & Choose Your Retreat Date
Schedule a free 30-minute Discovery Call to connect and ask any questions.
- Or send a request on Retreat Guru.
Once I’ve received your request, I’ll check availability. We’ll choose your retreat date together at least 30 days in advance to allow for meaningful preparation.
You can also contact me via info@femkevalerie.com or by using this form.
2. Comprehensive Intake Form
Once we’ve agreed on a date, you’ll receive a thorough intake form along. This helps me understand your background, intentions, and what support will be most helpful for you.
This is deep, somatic work, so it’s important your intentions, needs, and values align with my approach.
We’ll review your intake, discuss your goals, and make sure the retreat is a good and safe fit.
Once your health declaration has been approved by me, we’ve had a Zoom-call, and the journey has been paid in full, your spot is confirmed. Please wait to book flights or travel until then.
Please note: Without your intake and full payment, I cannot confirm the booking or location yet.
3. After confirmation, you’ll receive per email:
- A preparation plan with everything you need to know (what to bring, location details, and more)
- The Somatic Preparation Guide (a digital PDF)
- A link to schedule your Preparation Video Call with me, where we will explore your intentions and make sure you feel ready and resourced for our time together.
what about plant medicine aND ETHICS?
Such an important question! Plant medicines are ancient teachers — meant to reconnect us with the Earth, with ourselves, and with the responsibilities we carry in times of global uncertainty.
As a white woman, I recognize my privilege in this space. I’m committed to ongoing reflection, unlearning, and accountability.
Here’s what that looks like:
I work with European Psilocybin truffles, rooted in my own cultural background.
10% of all journeys are donated to the Indigenous Medicine Conservation Fund (IMC) to support Indigenous communities.
I actively work with anti-oppressive frameworks, center reciprocity, and continue to create trauma-informed spaces that prioritize ethics over profit.
I offer scholarships for women with limited access to healing spaces.
I offer plant medicine work not as a tool for personal escape, but as a pathway toward collective healing, liberation, and reconnection with the Earth.
This work is about being in right relationship—with the medicine, with nature, with Indigenous communities, and the historical and societal context we operate within.
what are your credentials and expertise?
I’m a Trauma-Informed Facilitator for women. With over a decade of experience in coaching, and training in Polyvagal Theory, coercive control, narcissistic abuse, Journal Therapy, and psychedelic support, I guide women in reconnecting with their wholeness.
Over the years, I’ve guided women through trauma, burnout, and plant medicine journeys. I’ve safely held space for hundreds of people in group ceremonies, retreats, and private sessions with different plant medicines.
When it comes to plant medicine integration, I specifically work with the Somatic Plant Medicine Integration Model (the SPMI Model), developed by Atira Tan.
This isn’t just theory: I walk this path myself. I bring both expertise and deep understanding—as I welcome you to reconnect with your own wisdom and healing potential.
Can I do this with a friend or loved one?
Yes—but only if both of you are truly ready for this work.
While The Sacred Reconnection is primarily designed as a private 1:1 program, I do offer limited spaces for duo journeys (for close friends or partners who feel deeply called to experience this together). This is not a casual add-on.
Both participants must:
- Be individually ready and committed to their own healing process
- Feel emotionally safe with one another
- Understand that while you’re journeying in the same space, this is still a personal, inward experience
The investment for a private duo journey is €3.500,- (total price for 2 persons), including preparation and integration support for both of you.
If this resonates, you’re welcome to reach out for a Discovery Call on Zoom, and we can explore if this is the right fit for you both.
Is an overnight stay included?
Yes. A restful overnight stay is included in your Sacred Reconnection journey. After the plant medicine ceremony, you’ll be offered a nourishing vegetarian dinner and have space to gently land.
The next morning, we’ll share a light breakfast and a gentle somatic integration practice, closing the journey together around 10:00 AM. This allows you to ease back into the world after your psychedelic experience, so you’ll be ready to travel to your next destination.
If you’ve arrived by car, you’ll be in a clear and settled state to drive home safely the next day. The ceremony location is easily accessible by both public transport and car (with free on-site parking).
What if I need to cancel or reschedule?
I understand that life can be unpredictable. At the same time, this journey requires preparation, time, and energy — both for your experience and my availability. To create clear agreements:
Rescheduling
- You may reschedule your ceremony up to 30 days in advance, for a €50 rescheduling fee.
- Rescheduling within 30 days of the ceremony is not possible and will be treated as a cancellation.
Cancellations
- If you cancel more than 30 days before your scheduled retreat, you will be refunded any payments made minus the €250 deposit.
- Cancellations made within 30 days of your scheduled ceremony are non-refundable.
- No-shows or same-week cancellations will not be refunded, and the full amount remains due.
- For bookings made on Retreat Guru, the Retreat Guru fee of 14% is refundable up to 1 day prior to the retreat start, and will be refunded in the event of a cancellation.
Illness, Emergencies & Travel Insurance
If you fall ill (fever, flu, or contagious symptoms), or if an acute emergency arises, please contact me as soon as possible per email via info@femkevalerie.com.
I highly recommend all participants — whether travelling from within the Netherlands or abroad — to arrange travel or cancellation insurance. This helps protect your investment in case of unexpected illness or emergencies.
By booking your Sacred Reconnection journey, you agree to the Terms & Conditions of Femke Valerie.
What if i have more questions?
Please feel free to reach out by email at info@femkevalerie.com or by using this form.
You are also warmly invited to schedule a free Discovery Call, where we explore whether this journey is aligned with you.
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Imagine This...
You wake up in the morning, and for the first time in years, your body feels soft. Safe. That dark cloud has disappeared. No tightness in your stomach. Just a quiet knowing: you are okay.
You sip your tea slowly. Even when the world feels heavy or uncertain, you feel connected to yourself with awareness, understanding, and compassion for why your body feels this way.
Your mind isn’t spinning in self-doubt or second-guessing every decision. Instead, there’s a sense of clarity and trust, like your inner compass is finally pointing true north —and you trust it.
You feel connected. Grounded. You’re no longer just surviving the day — you’re living it.
And the weight you’ve carried?
The hypervigilance, the pressure to keep holding it all together? You finally exhale. There is space to breathe again. Peace. Gentle understanding toward all parts of yourself. And inner power.
And in the quiet moments — whether you’re walking in the forest or simply sitting with yourself — you sense the deeper pulse of life moving through you. Spirit. Source. Whatever name you give it… it’s there. A deeper connection.
For the first time in a long time, you feel like you belong. Not because you’re proving, or always need to feel in control. But because you are whole.
This was never “a trip.” This is a Sacred Reconnection™.